5 things I measure my success

• Fatherhood
• Being a good husband
• Career
• Friendships
• and Spriritual life

They all should be in green, but it is close to imposible, especially if you push yourself to the limit in one or two areas.
Just try to get back and pay back the loan otherwise others areas will bankrupt and you’ll be broke

• seeing your childrens once or twice a month
• divorced
• unemployed or bankrupt
• no friends or with the ones who do not pick up the phone
• metally exausted and living in the chaos